My name is Melissa, I’m 43 years old, and I’m a proud wife and mother to three beautiful children Jasmine (25), Jade (19) and Justice (15). My husband’s name is Joe. Our family’s idea of fun is anything that brings us together—whether it’s a simple walk, a weekend outing, or a scenic drive. I’ve always preferred quiet moments and peaceful retreats, especially since our everyday lives tend to be busy and full. I currently work full-time with the City of San Antonio’s Head Start program and, as of January 2025, I also co-manage a small Christian business. I say co-manage because, as with everything in my life, I truly believe God is at the wheel.
A little over a year ago, my world shifted when I learned I had Stage 1 cancer. A neuroendocrine tumor (NET) was discovered incidentally on my pancreas during an abdominal scan—one that was actually performed for a completely unrelated reason. This is how many neuroendocrine tumors are found—by chance. Because these tumors often remain asymptomatic for an average of 5–7 years, many people are diagnosed at a later stage. Adding to the challenge is the rarity of the disease, which means specialists experienced in treating NETs can be difficult to find.
Learning I have cancer has been life-changing for me and my family, to say the least. No one ever thinks cancer will happen to them. I wish I could say I’ve faced it with unshakable strength, but the truth is, there have been moments of deep despair. There have also been moments of overwhelming gratitude—especially knowing that my cancer was caught early. Right now, I’m preparing my mind and body for a Whipple procedure after learning there may be some potential spread. It’s a daunting step, but I hold on tightly to my faith and the promise of healing. I’ve made a vow that when I am cancer-free, I will never again take a single second of my life for granted. Every moment with my family is a gift I will treasure.
I’m deeply grateful for organizations like ThriveWell Cancer Foundation, which provide invaluable support to people in our community who understand the ups and downs of the cancer journey. Their holistic services—such as counseling, nutrition guidance, and exercise programs—help ease the burden and nurture both body and spirit.
My cancer journey isn’t over, and maybe it never truly will be. But I do know this: I’m still here today, and that means God is still writing my story. Each new day gives me another reason to be grateful and another opportunity to live life to the fullest.
