A Shocking Diagnosis: When it Becomes Reality

I am Claudia E. Martinez, and this year marks my fourth year since the day I was shocked to find out I had colorectal cancer. While cancer runs in my family, I still found myself asking: “What do you mean I have colorectal cancer? How is that even possible?!” Sadly, it was possible. It was real.

The Danger of Self-Diagnosis

I had started noticing signs, but I didn’t want to believe it was cancer. Like so many of us do, I turned to the internet. Because my symptoms didn’t “check every single box” on a Google search, I convinced myself I was fine. As time passed, I couldn’t ignore that something was off. I tried self-medicating, but nothing worked. Finally, I gave myself an ultimatum: if one last self-treatment failed, I would see a doctor. When it failed, I had to face the truth. I kept my focus on my daughters—the thought of them having no one but me gave me the strength to fight.

The Power of Self-Advocacy and Early Detection

After my first colonoscopy, my fears were confirmed. It didn’t truly hit me until I had to say the words out loud. After the initial tears, I shifted into gear: I searched for the best surgeon and began advocating for myself.
Advocating is so important! The last thing I told my surgeon before being rolled into the OR was that she had my full permission to do whatever it took to get the cancer out—but I pleaded with her not to leave me with a colostomy bag.

Why You Shouldn’t Fear a Colonoscopy

Many people avoid colonoscopies because they fear pain. Let me tell you: A colonoscopy is not painful.

The Prep: This is the “worst” part, and even then, the prep drinks today aren’t that bad.

The Procedure: It’s as easy as getting the “magical potion,” blinking, and hearing the staff say, “Oh sweetie, we are all done.”

Don’t let fear keep you from getting answers. Because I was checked early, my cancer was caught between Stage 1 and 2. Even in the short time between my screening and surgery, three more pre-cancerous tumors had already developed. Getting checked sooner rather than later is vital.

Finding the Will to Thrive with ThriveWell

My journey has not been easy. I lost my job and suffered greatly—economically, physically, and emotionally. My recuperation was a long road until I discovered ThriveWell Cancer Foundation. I was so upset that I hadn’t known about this wonderful organization sooner! I am fully convinced that had I started with them earlier, my recovery would have been faster, more supported, and more affordable. I am so grateful to Jackie, Jen G., Cheryl, Rosie, and the many others who make ThriveWell a sanctuary. From the various classes to the local businesses that open their doors for Artful Healing, this community helps survivors truly THRIVE.

Listen to Your Body

Know your body. Listen to your body. Take care of your body.

Colorectal cancer pulled the rug out from under my feet, but I didn’t let it keep me down. My health issues may have started at my “bottom,” but with the support of ThriveWell, I have bounced back to the top!

March is National Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month